The Babe of the week is none other than, ShiRika Gal Power!!
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Do's & Don'ts of Courtship (Let's Debate 'bout it!)
I'm sure you people may have read those Do's and Don'ts' of courtship and dating on magazines or emails that go around. Do you read them and actually apply them? Maybe, but I'm sure some of you not only read them, but actually dispute on their accuracy to your lives, with friends. Here's 2 people's viewpoints over such Do's and Don'ts they read on the net. Laugh at lovers or laugh along with lovers, that's your choice but one thing's for sure, love is definitely blind lah..
DO'S (For her)
Tell him you adore his muscles
Gal's point of view: "So I gotta tell him the I adore his muscles... so that he can go around with a bloated head thinking he can get me just 'cos he has muscles???"
Guy's point of view: "Wats up with muscles?... I don't have any so if she is gonna "compliment" me on it, I will know what a liar she is..."
Roll your eyes in disgust whenever the subject of your ex-boyfriend comes up
Gal's point of view: "And why would that subject come up?? "
Guy's point of view: "And do you think I even give 2 hoots about her ex?"
Remember to compliment his mother on her culinary skills
Gal's point of view: "~~Imagine ME:- *eyes wide and giggly* "oooh aunty... i simply love the dhal curry you made" The MOM:- "that was chicken soup" dumb dumb dumb.... i am a better cook than most mothers i have met.... *rolls her eyes*"
Guy's point of view: "Yeah and what if my mother's cooking is really pathetic and poisons one for good..hmm"
Pay attention to his little sister's hobbies and heartbreaks
Gal's point of view: "Why should I care? Why would I do something like that? Where's the sincerity? "
Guy's point of view: "That is it!... she will so turn me off..adoring my sister...seriously."
Offer to pay occasionally on a date if you're both earning comparable salaries. If you insist on going dutch all the time, more power to you.
Gal's point of view: "~~well... if I invited him out... I would pay for everything... and if HE invited me... HE should pay right? *blinks* *scratches her head* i tot THAT was the understood rule.... "
Guy's point of view: "This I wont mind...coz I am always paying for them... :("
Compliment his taste in clothes/food/decor/music/art. Whatever applies.
Gal's point of view: "What if he insists on wearing green leather pants EVERYWHERE and he likes the idea of purple walls and yellow curtains?? sorry ah... but.... *shakes her head* can i just compliment the person i am with on his taste in women instead? "
Guy's point of view: " What if she's someone who could lie through her teeth to get what she wants from me, like gifts...hmmm "
Tell him you love him. Often.
Gal's point of view: "~~crap.... the women are the ones who'd like to hear this often... men want women to compliment their muscles.... instead... they should say that we should tell him that we love his body often. *rolls her eyes*"
Guy's point of view: "Often? Forget it..Girls always expect a reply "i Love you" back from me and when it doesnt come, they give the dagger stare. Scary.. "
DO'S (For him)
Tell her she looks beautiful
Gal's point of view: "~~and if she's having PMS.... pls be prepared to die tragically with maximum blood loss....."
Guy's point of view: "even if she has cross eyed, big nose, and fat? "
Refrain from making hooting noises when a bombshell walks past the two of you.
Gal's point of view: "~~well.... I look at bombshells too..... but who hoots? what happens if the bombshell turns out to be a bombdude?? know what i mean??? *shakes her head* dangerous you know.... you'd never know"
Guy's point of view: "How can u not resist that especially if she has cross eyes, big nose and is fat... "
Hold her hand at the most schmaltzy moment in a romantic film.
Gal's point of view: "Why??? WHY?!?!? Why does ANYONE watch a romantic film NEWAY???? Any guy who would wanna watch a romantic film with me is just... *thumbs down* I don't want a pretender...."
Guy's point of view: "Romance films turn me off..! The mere reason I'm even there watching the movie is already a big feat okay... "
Tolerate, even sing along to `your song'.
Gal's point of view: "Imagine two adults holding hands... and singing..... "Sunny day... keeping the... rain away.... on my way to where the air is sweeeeeet.... can you tell me how to get... how to get to sesame streeeeeet" *smacks her forehead*"
Guy's point of view: "What!? Eeeeeekksss… I cant sing for nuts, besides how do girls decide which is "our song"? "
Avoid all comparisons with your ex's.
Gal's point of view: "WHY?? If you find your partner lacking in comparison with your ex.... why is your ex... your ex??? stoooooopit!!"
Guy's point of view: "Yea my imaginary ex down the road "
Be a gentleman. Pick her up and drop her to her home on a date. Open the door for her. Guide her through crowds. It is always appreciated.
Gal's point of view: " ~~Yeah yeah... make her feel totally dependant on you... next time she wants a super sized pack of tampons... make sure that the first person that she would ask to buy it to be you... *shakes her head*. haiyo... aandava.... what happened to women's lib again???"
Guy's point of view: "Is she blind, crippled or what??? Maybe yea the picking up and dropping off sounds fine but the others... seriously… "
Call after a wonderful evening and tell her it was wonderful.
Gal's point of view: "~~imagine.... Guy:- ''hey hun... i had a wonderful evening today..." Gal:- "but i wasn't out with you... i was at home washing my hair...." Guy:- "hey... i read somewhere that i had to call after a WONDERFUL evening...""
Guy's point of view: " if the evening was wonderful, she should know... needn't waste my mobile money jus to tell her that.. "
Call when you say you will call.
Gal's point of view: "~~*nods* most guys don't get this bit.... but at the same time... don't call every ten mins la.... don't ask her repeatedly if she enjoyed herself either....."
Guy's point of view: " If I remember...**yawnz** "
Send her flowers.
Gal's point of view: " so that she has to spend time lookin' for a vase and whatever to put the stupid flowers in and waste time looking after them day to day only to have them dry up and die? chocolates are a much much better bet.... "
Guy's point of view: "Flowers?.... I still dun understand how flowers can be romantic! "
Gal's final note: so this is what i feel... i only agree with the call back rule... and that too... not 100%... but my main question is... why would you wana read all these silly do's and don't's at all?? do what you feel is right.... make sure you don't hurt anyone in the process.... this is my motto.....
Guy's final note: There are just way too many rules to remember when courting a girl. Truth of the matter is a guy remembers to do all of these to get the girl; he tries so hard only to forget everything after the relationship is sealed. So why bother in the 1st place?
